psychoanalysis

The wall"


Between my desire and what I saw, there is no common measure." The complaint is entered into the analysis. Most often it is resigned reluctantly, but the impression of knocking again and again to the same impossibilities eventually exhaust ourselves. Knowing precisely where we suffer, and even why we suffer, not enough to offset the pain and exhaustion to lead his life as a crash test. The entry into this particular analysis was to ring at a time when it no longer believes that and the last hope. We will give the analyst to know nothing less than allowing us to finally be happy. And that's where the demand arises.



Exhaustion of demand"


Every application is demand for love" said Jacques Lacan. And paradoxically, if you will, love, is precisely what does not ask. So what will be the analysis is to help you realizing it. You help no longer suffer from the fact that you can not help, you can even rejoice that nothing will be.The analysis allows a gradual acceptance, renunciation, gradually vouvoir to control everything in our lives. And strength not to respond to your request for love, always deviate from the focus of your expectations assumed, the analyst allows you to better define your desire.




The symptom in the final analysis


This is called a symptom, in the neurotic is the creation around what has been pointed to by Lacan in his famous aphorism: "there is no sexual relation." This does not mean of course that there is no sex. This means a "vice" in the structure of language, and thus the subject, which implies that there is no guarantee to find harmony between "man" and "woman", a "relationship" between the two meanings " . There is no stable relationship and prepared the body to conjoin a 

man and a woman in the enjoyment "(Franck Chaumont).
From there, the analyst and analysand work together to identify this creation unique to each individual around the impossibility of sexual intercourse. That is to say that this is not to get rid of his symptoms, but to arrive to do with, using their creative potential rather than its destructive power.The analysis is not a miracle cure. It does not promise a return to paradise lost, but a better understanding, better enjoyment of what makes us irreducibly different.